When Peace Feels Out of Reach, This Might Be Why

Inspired by the sermon preached by our pastor Dr. GreGory

Dr. GreGory delivered a powerful and sobering word reminding us that endurance in Christ isn't passive—it’s purposeful. It requires discernment, repentance, humility, and spiritual maturity. These aren’t just lessons to learn—they are seeds to plant in the soil of our hearts. If we care for them, they will bear fruit that endures.

The Enemy’s Strategy to Divide and Conquer

“The devil is trying to tear our families apart.”

The enemy’s agenda is not just chaos in the world—it’s division in our homes. He often doesn’t show up in obvious ways, but through subtle tactics like misunderstandings, pride, and offense.

We were reminded that spiritual warfare doesn’t always feel like a fight—it can feel like stubborn silence in a marriage, bitterness between siblings, or prideful independence in relationships. And if we're not careful, these fractures can keep us from receiving God’s best. "And if a house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand." – Mark 3:25. We must fight for unity the same way the enemy fights to divide.

Victory Comes Through Identity in Christ

“I live in victory because I’m with Him.”

Victory is not a feeling or a circumstance—it’s a position. When you’re connected to Christ, you’re already walking in victory. Being “the head and not the tail” (Deuteronomy 28:13) means we think, speak, and act like people who belong to God.

This isn’t about arrogance or superiority—it’s about living in alignment. When you know who you are in Him, you stop chasing validation from people or situations. You walk confidently because you know your place in the Kingdom.

“Thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.”

– 1 Corinthians 15:57

Delayed Destinies Due to Division

“There are some places God wants to take you, but it’s being held up because of differences.”

God has promises for you—but some of them are delayed because we haven’t dealt with what's dividing us from others. Whether it's unforgiveness, pride, or unresolved conflict, these issues can hinder progress.

Like the children of Israel, we may be going in circles, not because God said "no," but because we’ve refused to deal with what’s keeping us stuck. Healing relationships can be the key to unlocking delayed blessings.

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” – Romans 12:18

Pride’s Many Faces

Pride is deceptive. It doesn’t always look like someone showing off—it often looks like someone refusing help, staying silent in pain, or making decisions in isolation. It says, “I’ve got this,” when God is saying, “Let Me help you.”

Dr. GreGory reminded us that a life built on pride is like building a house on sand. It may look fine for a while, but it won’t last. Humility, on the other hand, creates a foundation that can carry the weight of God’s blessings.

“God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” – James 4:6

Watch What You Bring Into Your Home

Every purchase, every TV show, every conversation—it all has a spiritual impact. Dr. GreGory challenged us to examine the intent behind what we bring into our homes. Some things are harmless until we realize they were bought out of comparison, envy, pain, or pride.

Our homes should be places of peace and presence—not chaos and confusion. We are the gatekeepers of our environment. If we want God's peace to reign, we must take inventory of what we’re allowing in.

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” – Proverbs 4:23

Repentance Starts with “I’m Sorry”

We often think repentance has to be grand, emotional, or complicated. But sometimes healing starts with a simple, sincere “I’m sorry.” That two-word phrase has the power to mend relationships, stop generational curses, and bring peace to our homes.

Healing begins with honesty. We can’t be the exception when it comes to acknowledging our faults. God is not looking for perfection—He’s looking for humility.

“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us.” – 1 John 1:9

Divine Compensation: Peace After the Pain

God sees your pain, your trauma, and the tears you’ve cried behind closed doors. And He doesn’t just bring you out—He restores more than what you lost. Whether it was your peace, your health, your relationships, or your time—God knows how to make it right. Don’t give up. Restoration is not only coming, it’s being multiplied.

“Instead of your shame you will receive a double portion… and everlasting joy will be yours.” – Isaiah 61:7

“The Lord restored Job’s fortunes and gave him twice as much as he had before.” – Job 42:10

Step Into Your Season of Peace

Let this be your prayer this week:“Search me, O God. Remove anything in me—pride, offense, fear—that’s blocking my peace.” Peace is not the absence of problems. It’s the presence of God in the middle of them. Let go of what’s obscure, and allow God to fill your life with clarity, calm, and confidence.

Which of these “seeds” are you planting this week?

• Peace
• Humility
• Forgiveness
• Trust

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